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"Kaash Maine Usse Kabhi Apna Dost Na Banaaya Hota"

2026-08-28 • Noorani Ilm

Quran Qayamat ke din ek asli pachhtaawe ka manzar bayaan karta hai: ek insaan apne hi haathon ko kaatta hua, ye chaahte hue ke usne koi doosra raasta chuna hota. "Ya laytani lam attakhidh fulanan khalila, laqad adallani 'anidh-dhikri ba'da idh ja'ani" — "Aye kaash, maine fulaan ko apna khaas dost na banaaya hota. Usne mujhe zikr se bhatka diya iske mujhe milne ke baad" (25:28-29). Koi ajnabi nahi, koi dushman nahi — ek khaas dost, jiske asar ne use us cheez se door kar diya jo usne pehle hi paa liya tha. Ayat ek aisi line par khatam hoti hai jo pehli nazar mein lagne se zyada sakht wazan rakhti hai: "Wa kanash-shaytanu lil-insani khadhula" — "Aur Shaytan hamesha insaan ko akela chhod dene wala raha hai" (25:29).

Ek akela jumla jisne ek insaan ka mustaqbil tay kar diya

Nabi ﷺ ne bataaya ke ek dosti itna wazan kyun rakh sakti hai. Ek hadith mein jo Jami' at-Tirmidhi mein darj hai aur hasan qaraar di gayi hai, Abu Huraira ki riwayat se, unhone ﷺ farmaya: "Al-mar'u 'ala dini khalilihi fal-yanzur ahadukum man yukhalil" — "Insaan apne khaas dost ke deen par hota hai, to tum mein se har ek ko gaur se dekhna chahiye ke woh kise apna dost banaata hai." Har jaan-pehchaan ke khilaaf tanbeeh nahi. Un chand logon ke baare mein ek khaas ehtiyaat jo itne kareeb hain ke woh waaqai ye tay kar sakte hain ke insaan kya believe karta hai aur kaisa amal karta hai, aksar bina kisi ko ye poori tarah eehsaas huye ke ye ho raha hai.

Attar bechne wala aur luhaar

Nabi ﷺ ne ek tulna di jo chaudah sadiyon se istemaal mein hai kyunki ye farq ko itni sateekta se pakadti hai, jo Sahih al-Bukhari aur Sahih Muslim mein darj hai: "Achhe saathi aur bure saathi ki misaal attar bechne wale aur luhaar ki bhatti jaisi hai. Attar bechne wala ya to tumhein kuch attar dega, tumhein kuch bechega, ya kam se kam tumhein usse achhi khushbu milegi. Rahi baat luhaar ki bhatti ki, woh ya to tumhare kapde jala degi, ya tumhein usse bad-boo milegi." In mein se koi bhi natija ke liye doosre insaan ko kuch natakiya karne ki zaroorat nahi. Sirf ek ke kareeb khade hone se insaan ko achhi khushbu aati hai. Sirf doosre ke kareeb khade hone se ek aisa nishaan reh jaata hai jise dhona itna aasaan nahi.

Teen cheezein jo dekhne laayak hain

Poochhe jaane par ke kaunse saathi sabse behtar hain, Nabi ﷺ ne ek khaas jawaab diya: "Woh jiski soorat tumhein Allah ki yaad dilaaye, jiski baat tumhare ilm ko badhaaye, aur jiske amal tumhein Aakhirat ki yaad dilaayein." Sabse zyada manoranjan wali sohbat nahi, ya sabse zyada suvidhaajanak. Ek dost jise us baat se naapa jaaye ke sirf unke aas-paas hona insaan ka dhyaan kis taraf khainchta hai.

Doostiyaan jo Qayamat ke din tak nahi bachtin

Quran batata hai ke saanjhe imaan ke siwaaye kisi aur cheez par banaayi hui dostiyon ka kya hota hai, Surah Az-Zukhruf mein: "Al-akhillau yawma'idhin ba'duhum li ba'din 'aduwwun illal-muttaqin" — "Us din khaas dost ek doosre ke dushman ban jaayenge, siwaaye parhezgaar logon ke" (43:67). Jo bhi cheez ek dosti ki buniyaad thi — saanjhi aadatein, saanjhe shauk, saanjhe lamhe — ek aise din pighal jaati hai jab sirf ek saanjhi buniyaad ko itna mazboot bataaya gaya hai ke woh thami rahe: Allah ke prati sachchi lagan, dono logon ke beech pooree tarah saanjhi rakhi gayi.

Koi bhi alag insaan ko jaanne ke khilaaf koi qanoon nahi

Isme se kuch bhi un logon se alag-thalag hone ki dawat nahi hai jo wahi imaan ya wahi mayaar saanjha nahi karte. Quran kahin aur us har insaan ke saath meharbaani aur insaaf ki hidaayat deta hai jo imaan waalon ke khilaaf saqriya taur par dushmani nahi rakhta. Yahaan ki ehtiyaat zyada tang aur khaas hai — un chand logon par nishaana-band jo insaan ke maayne rakhne wali cheezon ko waaqai naya rukh dene ke itne kareeb hain, na ke baaki sabke saath aam neki par.

Quran ki apni kahaniyon se aur padhiye

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